When you’re in a foreign country or an unfamiliar city, it’s important to be ready for anything. For example, you may wish to take a short trip by bus, either as part of a tour or simply to get around town. Bus travel has its perks, including affordability, but also significant drawbacks—especially when you’re traveling with a toddler.
After all, you are unlikely to have the bus all to yourself; most of the time, you’ll be sharing it with quite a few strangers. And a bus—unlike your car—may not come equipped with all the child-wrangling supplies you’re accustomed to.
For these reasons and many others (such as the nauseating nature of bus travel down bumpy roads), this isn’t something we recommend doing often. Frankly, buses represent our least favorite way to travel. Yet it’s something you may wind up doing—so what should you know before you board? A short bus ride that takes you just a few city blocks is no big deal, but for longer distances, we have a few tips and suggestions.
Our Tips for Traveling by Bus
First, let’s talk booking. Just like with trains and planes, we recommend trying to book your toddler their own seat—their own space where they can stand up, lay out their toys, and just generally get comfortable.
A bigger issue with booking: We discovered that some bus lines will actually require kids under a certain age to be in car seats. (Age, not weight—an important distinction.) They literally won’t let you on if you don’t have a car seat—but here’s the rub: The buses don’t always have a way for you to attach foldable car seats, which means you need a big, bulky car seat… something we ultimately don’t recommend.
All that’s just to say: Check the car seat requirements for any bus travel you plan to do.
It might matter which seat you pick. Unless sitting in the front helps you keep from feeling nauseous, we’d generally recommend sitting in the back of the bus, where your child might be a little less disruptive, or at the very least you won’t feel like you have as many eyes on you. And also: The back of the bus is usually closer to the bathroom! (More on that in a minute.)
As for keeping your toddler happy (and mom and dad sane) during bus tips, we’ll just point you back to our comments about car travel and plane travel, and in particular to the toys and apps you can use to keep your kids engaged. Bring a few of these along for the bus ride, in your child’s bag.
Of course, buses aren’t likely to have snacks, and they certainly won’t have milk—so pack whatever food and drinks you need. Obviously, eating a meal beforehand is ideal.
Another consideration is the bathroom situation!
This is some really good information about traveling on a bus. It is good to know that it would be smart to mark if you need to bring a car seat. That is good for me to know because I wouldn’t have thought about how you would need to list that in the booking.
I’m glad we could help you and your family Penelope!
That’s a good point that at the back of the bus that you would have fewer people staring at you if your child is upset. I would think that would be pretty uncomfortable to have all those unhappy people looking at you. I’ll have to make sure to look for a seat in the back of the bus if my family decides to charter one for a family reunion.
I like what you said about checking car seat requirements for any bus travel you’re planning to do. My friend is planning an overnight school trip for her students. She’ll have to make sure she schedules the proper transportation so that parents will feel comfortable trusting her with the kids for that time.
Thanks! Yes always check the car seat requirements whenever you take kids on a bus.